Chinese Parenting Style

Amy Chua, a tiger florists chrysanthemum, sh bed her Chinese parenting stylus with the public through publishing book and writing article. Her common and hard parenting style raised lots of discussion and concern around the public. They all raise a question- this parenting style can help children to succeed in the future? I think it may not be that easy to raise a child with harsh parenting style. To a large extent, I disagree the harsh parenting style equal a wear out future of the child. First we entertain to define what tiger mama is.It is a Chinese parenting style that harshly and toughly pushes their children to meet their target or expectation, usually in the aspect of academic. In my opinion, better future includes better physical and mental health, wealth. According to a look into which is done by Desiree Baolian Qin, a professor in the department of human development and family studies at nautical mile State University, Chinese-American kids were more disadvantageou s concerning levels of disturbance and depression and the amount of conflict in their families when comparing European-American kids.The parents do not care what their childrens feeling and perception is. The parents use their authority to push their children. There is a advanced possibility of conflict between different expectation from parents and children. As sometimes parents have high expectation to children, this put large amount of force per unit area on children. So, it triggers a certain level of anxiety of children. These combination make children become low self- esteem. Although they volition become a profession in the future, they have a bad relationship and a negative impression on parents.Also, tough parenting style will affect childrens communication skill that more often than not relate to better future. Like popular tiger parent Amy Chua, she does not allow her daughter to stay at school to play with friends after school. A key concept of schooling is developi ng students social and communication skills. Parents do not let their children to go out but follow their tied schedule. The children will become not sociable. In workplace, there are not just apply professional skills but also communication and social skills that help populate to promote to upper managerial level and work ffectively. Therefore, tiger mom is not equal to a better future. However, a coin has two sides, although Chinese parenting style is very mean, it has certain advantages on childrens future. Focusing on effort but not inherent ability is a feature or advantage of Chinese parenting style. Also, it is the key of distinguishing American and Chinese parenting style. Amy Chua doesnt let her kids believe they cant succeed. The style nurtures the children with inculcating the concept of working(a) hard. It pushes children to limit to attain the goal which is set by their parents.This let the children put one over that they can make it when working hard. It gradually d evelops their self confidence and determination to attain a goal. It is well up prepared for future to work with colleagues. He or she will become a hard working and determined somebody in workplace. These are crucial feature of high position in concern level. So, a tiger mom equals a better future in this way. Moreover, although parents giving lots of pressure on children will make the relationship tight, it trains children AQ when living and working under pressure.Adversity Quotient (AQ) is the ability of a person to deal with problems. Chinese parenting style harshly push children to achieve certain goals which is not easy to attain. In this time, children have to think of some ways to cope with the problems to satisfy their parents desire. As a result, the skills of problem result are significant in workplace and also live independently. However, this style will largely arrange children emotion when there is high possibility that conflict between children and parents. all th e same some kids have been diagnosed of mood disorder. This largely affects the relationship between parents and children and causes apparently mentally unhealthy. So, this is a better future for a child. In conclusion, I admit Chinese parenting style improves children ability of problems solving and develops their determination mind that institutionalize them a better future and achievement. However, the parenting style is tremendously rigid to a kid that easily harms their esteem and destroys family relationship.It will give a negative memory in their mind, even get an unrecoverable wound in their heart. Even though their future is bright and recognized, they have negative feeling and history in their mind that I am not notice as better future. Thus, I disagree a tiger mom equals a better future in a small extent. Reference list http//www. livescience. com/18023-tiger-parenting-tough-kids. hypertext markup language http//www. raisesmartkid. com/all-ages/1-articles/47-authoritaria n-strict-parenting-vs-permissive-which-is-better